When ‘sense of duty’ kicks in… | The Guardian Nigeria Newspaper

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The message from him reads…
“The lady that I am considering a future with, neither goes to the market nor cooks.We have been together for about 10 months and the only time she goes to the kitchen is when she wants to warm the soup/stew that a cook delivered to her. Or when she wants to boil rice/prepare ‘swallow’.

“Most times when we are together…I handle our breakfast. Initially, I thought her demanding job was the issue, but as time went on…I began to realize that she just doesn’t like it. She has a cook whom she pays to cook whatever she desires to eat and deliver to her. The same woman (or the driver) attends to her household shopping. Other times, she (my woman) shops online.

“I love this woman and I want us to belong together in the future, but this side of her lifestyle worries me.I am OK with the paid help that comes to clean the house and all, but this other non-domestic aspect of her worries me. I come from a…



Source: Guardian Newspaper