African American couple intimately in bed | Photo: Ebony
When it comes to ‘Sex’ as a topic, many couples find it very uncomfortable to discuss. Many feel embarrassed about their bodies, and for those who have been sexually rejected at some point tend to feel insecure.
Not to mention our culture and life experiences which have created feelings of sexual shame, making romantic and intimate sex a scary endeavour to even talk about which leads to poor intimacy or none at all.
Couples who have a great sex life make sex a priority rather than the last item of a long to-do list. They create space for intimacy and connection. These couples talk about sex and put the relationship first, despite the demands of work and kids. They discover sexual pleasure through a variety of methods, not just intercourse.
However, sexually satisfied couples are emotionally attuned to each other inside and outside of the bedroom. The key to long-term happiness then, sexually and otherwise, is for both…
Source: Guardian Newspaper
