”Submission does not mean a woman must lower her voice, essence, and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man”- Dancer Kaffy


Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has shared her thoughts on the never-ending debate on submission in marriage.

Some Nigerians have posited that married women have to submit to their husbands whether they like it or not.

In a post shared on her Instagram page, Kaffy opined that submission doesn’t mean a woman has to lower her voice, essence, or purpose just because she is in the presence of her man. She averred that submission to her means that women are in agreement with the assignments of a man. She however pointed out that most men don’t even have clarity of themselves as they are under too much pressure, distractions, and expectations created by culture and society. 

”The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used .

First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just…

Source: Linda Ikeji