At a period where several marriages are crashing and reports of women in abusive relationship fill the air, former super eagles captain, Joseph Yobo’s wife, Adaeze has a word for women.
Reacting to the sad story of the mother of two who was killed by her husband in Lagos, Adaeze, who has been married for over 5 years, took to Instagram to share her thoughts.
‘So sad!!! Marriage is not by force. Heck! Everybody must not marry. The society you’re worried about don’t even care about you. They are the same ones saying RIP on LIB. Pls think about it. Your life matters too’.
‘If you are in a similar situation pls pls pls walk out, whatever shame you are trying to hide will still be out there. Its not worth it. You haven’t fullfilled Gods plan&purpose in your life, I beg you not to be selfish. Your purpose in this life is bigger than you, bigger than your husband, bigger than marriage. Never apologise to anyone for leaving a (physically) abusive relationship’.
‘Ephesians 5:25 says men should love their own wives as Christ loved the church” ~ he gave up his life for us. Then Ephesians 5:28 says husbands should love their wives as their own bodies’. The same Bible that is against divorce says in 1 Corinthians 7:15 that if an unbeliever departs, (from marriage) let him depart’ then goes further to say that ‘a believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances, God has called us to live in peace” if your partner physically abuse you, he has departed from the marriage vows, please walk away, he doesn’t fear God and if he doesn’t fear God, …Read More
Source:: The NET