"I was willing to become like Anita to keep Maje" – Toke Makinwa

I
don’t know where Toke found the strength to keep loving Maje as
desperately as she did despite all the pain she was in in the
relationship. I’m not sure I could love a man this deeply…or if I want
any man to me love me this way. Almost borders on obsession. I don’t
understand it. Toke writes;

“I tried to
talk to him…a deep conversation in the dark where we could bare our
souls to each other. I asked why he wouldn’t let Anita go? What was it
about her? With tears in my eyes and desperate to save my home, I was
willing to learn, to become like her if that was what he…