Dear Bunmi, afraid to tell friends about my failed marriage



A few years ago, my husband left me for another woman. We were only married for four years and we had no children.

I was very upset and found it easier not to tell people, because I knew I’d just start crying. My family lives in another state and I didn’t have any close friends to talk to, at the time.

All my colleagues in the office assume I’m still married, because I’ve never told them any differently.

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I used to keep to myself, but I’m now getting more friendly, and I have a special friend I relate to.

My new friends keep inviting me to outings outside work and urge me to bring my husband. As a result, I can’t go to any of these dos.

If I keep on turning them down, they’re going to think I’m not interested in making friends. I want to start living a life that includes happiness and…

Source: Vanguard Newspaper