Dear Bunmi,
My current boyfriend and I are seriously discussing settling down and starting a family. I am 26 and he is in his early 30s.
Recently, I ran into an ex-lover who is a happy-go-lucky man. We sort of drifted apart when we had new relationships. He now wants us to continue where we left off. I told him of my current partner and he told me he was not offering marriage.
All he wanted was to give me a mind-blowing fling before I settle down. He’s really sexy and a bit mad, but I’m awfully tempted.
Should I go for it knowing I might not have another chance once I’m married?
Lillian, by e-mail.
Dear Lillian,
It’s not surprising that you’ve created this dilemma for yourself when you’re on the verge of making a serious commitment. It sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it – though if you get it, it might not taste so good!
If you’ve…
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